How to Forget Unrequited Love
I'm tired of hearing men say they're madly in love with a woman and that despite dozens of attempts, nothing seems to work. The woman doesn't want anything to do with the guy. I think it's not too hard to imagine this scenario, is it? If you've never had a fixation on any woman, you must know a guy who is going through it.
The truth is that thousands of men are infected with the crush virus. Commonly confused with love, this disease mercilessly attacks men of all ages and is marked by the man's obsession with a specific woman. To this contaminated man, it seems that there is no other woman on the planet. To make matters worse, the more he tries to get close to this woman, the more she runs away.
I'm here to explain how a player should behave in these situations and why it's not worth investing your time and energy in such nonsense.
Why Infatuation Is So Dangerous
The biggest problem with infatuation is that people always confuse it with love. Globo soap operas and impact phrases are just there to get in the way, helping people to mentally masturbate. Passionate is not love!
Acute infatuation syndrome is marked by fixation on a particular woman, even after a relationship has proved to be unsuccessful. Other times, the two even had any kind of relationship and even after several refusals, the man continues to insist. Symptoms such as social isolation, lack of appetite and reduced productivity are also frequent.
The root of the problem is the belief that she is a special woman and different from all others. We'll see why this is silly.
Three Steps to Eliminating the Infatuation
The first step to being successful in this endeavor and getting back in good emotional shape is to recognize that this “unrequited love” is not doing you any good. And you don't need to be a genius to conclude that we should eliminate everything that is bad for us from our lives, right? Excellent. The solution I have for combating infatuation is very simple and has only three steps.
The first step is mental preparation. You certainly only got to that state because you developed the wrong mindsets. People who suffer from infatuation believe that that woman, the source of so many problems, is their soulmate and that no other is her match. Lie! I can bet you that on a planet with billions of women, there must be at least a few tens of thousands of better girls. If you don't believe me, I think this is a good time for you to get out more. Think about abundance – there are thousands of special women!
After your mental preparation, it's time for you to nip it in the bud. Eliminate any kind of contact with the woman, whether in person, by phone, email, Facebook... Also ask your friends not to bring this up with you. If you have objects or photos of her in your house, return or throw them away. Remember that crushes are dangerous, so don't settle for compromise. Don't fall into that conversation that you can be "friends" and keep in touch occasionally. In practice this will not help you.
And finally, the last step is exactly the implementation of the mindset developed in the first phase: go out with other women. It is natural that at first you may have some difficulty with this. After suffering from a crush, even the best of players can end up rusty and lose some of their charm. But this is fleeting, in a short time you will have met and become involved with dozens of other women and, when you remember the crush, you will think of all the time you wasted with all that nonsense.
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