7 body language secrets that attract women
Some men rely on their financial success to make a good impression on women. Others use their status to try to get to their hearts. And there are still those who prefer to bet all their chips on luck and let fate decide where it wants to take them. The fact is, none of these factors will help you create attraction in women.
Initially, it will be the body language that will attract or repel the most beautiful girls. However, most men today don't know what it means to have confident and seductive body language. Developing this alpha posture can take a long time before it is done “naturally”. The good news is that you can start practicing right now. Discover the 7 body language secrets that attract women.
1. Maintain eye contact
Few men make eye contact with women. And this is a big mistake, because eye contact is the most important element of body language to create attraction. If you don't look the woman in the eye, it communicates that you are nervous and lacking in confidence. On the other hand, if you make eye contact with a firm, determined look, it shows that you are confident and relaxed in the approach.
2. smile
Another indicator of a man's confidence. Also, a smile on his face further demonstrates that the man is having fun and enjoying what he is doing. And that is irresistible to any woman. No one wants to approach or meet a person who seems bored or incapable of having fun. By smiling, you maintain a more open posture and the chances of a woman talking to you, for example, are much greater. The smile is also an indicator that you are enjoying the woman's company and are interested in knowing more.
3. Use of hands
One of the first signs that indicate a lack of confidence in a social approach or situation is hands. That's why it's important that you know what to do with them and not question your safety and comfort in that social situation. Avoid hiding your hands in your pockets, moving them excessively, scratching any part of your body or even touching your face. All these signs are indicators of weakness and insecurity. Instead, try to keep them at your side, gesture – slowly – as you speak, and still touch the other person in a non-threatening way, like on the upper arms, for example.
4. Mirroring
Want to quickly empathize with a person? Then start mirroring your every move. If she crosses her arms, do the same. If she takes the glass and takes a sip, also take your glass and take a sip. If she smiles, smile too. I know that all this may seem strange at first glance, but the fact is that this mirroring technique allows you to create an emotional connection with the woman very quickly. Just a tip: wait about three seconds before repeating the body signal, or the situation might get a little awkward…
5. Alpha posture
This is a basic principle worth reinforcing: maintain an upright position, with your chest out and belly pulled in at all times. Another common mistake is leaning over to talk to the woman. Don't do this, maintain an upright posture in every situation, both sitting and standing.
6. Slow movements
A clear indicator that a person is restless and agitated is the speed of their movements. To attract a woman, you must be calm and confident. Communicate this through your movements. Try to move more slowly. When walking, looking at the environment, turning around when someone calls you...
7. Take up space
Don't be afraid to take up your space. This is another irresistible indicator of self-confidence for women. One way to do this is to separate your feet a little wider than normal. When you're standing, for example, keep them lined up with your shoulders. It's a subtle sign that you own the territory. Another way to take up more space is to support your arms and lean back when seated.
You won't be able to build impeccable body language overnight, but you can start putting each of these tips into practice separately.
A good way to internalize these actions is to start masterfully practicing one thing at a time. On day one, start making more eye contact. On the second day, in addition to eye contact, add a seductive smile, and so on. Over time, all these aspects will become completely natural in your day-to-day life.